How often do you take time to literally take a self assessment of yourself? Today I had the opportunity to have a few profound conversations with my females friends. It is truly a shame how men can treat a woman and expect her to remain faithful. Men can be so trifling. Now women before you start shaking your head, pointing your finger, and shouting I have personally met some trifling women.
Its so easy for men and women to say "there are no good companions left," but the truth of the matter is that before you can honestly try and find a mate you have to clean up your own S***. We tend to take our baggage from relationship to relationship instead of learing from our mistakes and finding a solution to our problems. Instead we run on to the next one. We make the person in our new relationship pay the "emotional bill" of the last fools mistakes
How can you expect someone to love you when you don't love yourself? Now you may say "I love me some me" but if you really loved yourself you wouldn't let someone put their hands on you. If you really loved yourself, you wouldn't let someone take advantage of you financially. If you really loved yourself you wouldn't let someone mentally degrade you. If you really loved yourself you don't need a mate to define you. A mate should compliment you. I can give you tons of examples, but I think you get the point.
Love is more than a sexual expression you get at the end of a climax which lasted all of 5 minutes. When you learn to love yourself, you will see the importance of my acronym of Lets' Observe Valuable Emotions before we complicate them with our bodies.
When things don't go your way don't automatically assume its the other person. You should take the time to engage in daily self-reflection to determine what can you do differently to have better relationships. When its all said and done, relationships are all you have!
This has been your food for thought. I just wanted to drop this idea in your mind and it didn't cost you a dime!
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